Wow, sorry to hear about the medical scare but glad you are doing well! It's nice that your XW does at least care, I have no doubt it was genuine. My XW is the same, doesn't mean she wants to get back with me but she does care and asks questions about my health sometimes (if I'm sick or something), offers to help and shows interest.
Have a good time in Greece! I've never been, it's on my bucket list!
Thanks AS,
You are right, I didn't read anything else into it.
One thing that has helped me is that my 40th birthday is in December and I've set a goal with my workout so my focus has constantly been on that. That photographer friend of mine from last year will be taking pictures of the results(the pics are for my eyes only of course) so I'm currently following a strict diet. Setting that date for photography is so important because it adds a little bit of pressure but in a good way. I remember how much this helped last year, took my mind of anything negative for months.
And the side effect is that you feel and look great. Can not recommend a better GAL activity.
Me: 38 Stbxw: 35 No kids Mini bd: February 6, 2019 ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019 Told her to move out: September 8, 2019 W moved out: September 28, 2019 Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019