Brside, Thanks for the response. I took awhile to think through what you said. That's pretty unbelievable with your WW. I'm sorry you had to go through that I dont think mine is quite that low. I cant imagine her doing something like that. I think she still cares about me, just not more than she cares about doing what shes doing right now. This could be my rose colored glasses. I'm sure I am still in a fog. I'm working on it, but thanks again for staying with me on here and giving me some things to consider. I totally see what you mean about based on what i said, she knows if OM is gone, I'm still here. Not exactly a position of value.
LH, Ya I've read his threads. Those were pretty tough to read. I can assure you I'm not gonna be pursuing her or trying to initiate R talks.
In regards to recon, I have no idea what it looks like. I know she would have to want it, whole heatedly and we'd have to move on. Although I'd want to know she was sorry I wouldn't want her to spend the rest of her life trying to make up for it. That sounds miserable for her and for me. I'd want to move past it and continue a life together after we worked through the issues.
I agree that it wasn't about resentment, more so about a lack of respect.
