I can sense from your last couple posts that you want to do something “illusion of action” to try to get her back. You are not seeing any improvements so your brain is trying to get you to pursue.
Unfortunately I’m afraid you are probably going to be in this limbo state for a really long time.
One of my frustrations with MWDs book is the reference to the “affair fog”. That the WWs fog will clear and they snap out of it. That rarely happens until the WW hits rock bottom which usually takes many years to happen.
