An Introduction

[DonH]

Let me add to the list of those saying you most certainly belong here. I’ve been Dd now for coming up on 14 years. In great part that time has flown by. I’ve dated here and there, had 3 or 4 Rs at least what most would consider Rs although not to the level as some before including my M. I’ve ran across more people like yourself than I’m betting you’d ever think. I can name a half dozen ladies who have not had a boyfriend or partner or whatever you want to call it in many, many years. One I asked out, I’m pretty sure 6 years ago now. She declined saying she was going through a big struggle with her adult son and a potentially deadly addiction. He’s fine that’s long passed and I am pretty sure she’s not dated anyone since. I’ve since clearly determined her and I were not a match so it would not have gone anywhere anyhow. Not sure why she’s where she is but clearly doesn’t seem to want or need a guy. I’m much the same - not needing a GF. You may be too. There are things I miss and while I’m sure I’d be happier in some ways I also know I’d be less happy in others. On balance I thunk it’s a net gain - unless I am lucky enough to find the right fit. If I could find a travel partner that wanted to spend a few weekend a month together it would be perfect. I’m told they are out there but have found none. Anyhow, while there are not many people left here, you may find some good input. Hope you will stay as you are a perfect fit - at least on the life after D section.