Kindly, I'm always paying attention here and trying to learn. I feel like you're a few steps ahead of me with the L hijinks, and though I pray somehow I/H and I will be able to come to a settlement without Ls (even as I would have a L available to consult on any agreement)... that is ultimately not up to me. It's going to be up to H and how unreasonable he is compelled to be, for the most part. I think you're handling all of this so well--it's so wonderful to be able to come here and get advice, isn't it?
Originally Posted by Kindly
I guess I‘m just weighing my options for the next encounter. He will be waiting for an answer but I guess once he approached me I could just say “I have nothing else to tell you that I haven’t already ....speak to your lawyer.“ And then disengage and not let him push any buttons that make me want to educate him.
This seems like the right move to me. As you said, there's no point in trying to rationalize with him, and any rational answer you try to give, even if it's pointing out, again, that he's missing paperwork, well, it's not going to make sense to him, probably. Disengaging as quickly as possible seems best for you and for the situation.
