I get a text at 3am from her saying she was thinking of all our awesome adventures together.
She was lonely. NotYourProblem.
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she is sorry for everything
what is everything? Sorry is an action not throat noises.
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she was nervous about how I spoke to the 6 yo (sternly) about how he rode right out into the street wo looking. And she is afraid that my anger will be turned on her.
the correct response is ... OK. Were you angry at your son? Did she ride out into the street? does she need to be told to look both ways? is she a toddler?
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I texted her back "What happened, lets discuss etc and one instance where we disagree on my reaction to something and thats it?"
Yes you messed up. So what. the only response ever necessary to her explanations for destroying the family over petty difference's is ' OK' She has no voice. She is a child. Adults have conversations. They say things, like 'I want' ' I would like' 'How do we sort this out' Children pout, Narcissists (adult toddlers) stonewall and gaslight and sociopaths (morally bereft) Cheat.
Don't have sex with dependents. Sex is for peers. And don't try to have relationships with Narcissists and Sociopaths. focus on raising your functional level so your peers are functional adults.
Wow, blackfoot, you are good. Can we start dialoguing about my situation? I posted my story a couple days ago in the the newcomers seciton.
