Emailing, calling, or texting your wife demanding her to tell you if she has been with someone else is pretty aggressive.
She will probably just tell you it’s none of your business. And you won’t get the answer you seem to so desperately need.
In her mind she has left the marriage and is single. Even if it isn’t on paper. So I imagine it is very possible she’s been woth another guy on some level. I’m sorry
