Funny you that it was dark this am later than it has been. I noticed it too. Fall is on the way.
H is not eating with us. For Labor Day I made burgers. He came in as we sat down to eat. I mentioned burgers and he said he’d have a microwave burrito. I said, “are you sure? Burgers are ready.” He ate one. But not with us. He took the paper towel with the messy burger into the room. (Yes, he does not use dishes)
I will say, before BD2 he would head out on the weekend and bring home donuts or sandwiches. He had not done this since BD2 and on Friday evening when he kept on popping up when D25 and I were speaking about plans saying “what?” I had a feeling he would get them on Saturday, he did.
Last night, he came in from somewhere and I asked if he would get gas for me sometime this week as when I went to get gas at Costco the lines were PACKED. He said he could go then and left and did it. When he came back, I just thanked him.
This morning I checked FB and OW2 changed her profile picture and he already responded with proclamations of love that was reciprocated in kind.
I feel that I have reached out very minimally and I need to stop that now for a bit. It has been five weeks since he asked for a divorce. This is the first bit of action, towards me since then. So whatever he was dealing with he guessed it was ok to acknowledge me. I do not want to get to the point where I expect it like I did before BD2. It was really hard when the second one happened, because I got comfortable.
The rope needs to continue to drop. It’s interesting, I know what I am looking for. Seeing his reactions this weekend has made him a science experiment of sorts. I will continue to GAL. I will tell you later what my IC said. Very interesting, it I have to get to work!
