HI

You sound very strong and I agree with you

Your kids will adjust and learn the new rules and norm quickly
Now its about staying the course especially when H acts out

I used to tell my kids if they did one put down with me or each other
They had to now do 3 put ups to create respect and looking for the best in each other
and allowing bif feeling without shame or blame--

really good stuff!


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow