I would trust the L

Im sure you picked a good one, and yes I believe if he is withholding information and certain documents
Your L will be best to advise you


From my experience, MY xh pulled a lot of tricks during D
He tried not to pay the mediator and almost wound up in jail for it
He did not want to pay the price for his freedom
He did not care about his 2 kids or my well being

I was a stay at home mom until D an had no income

A good L will navigate this with you, and they will also pull the plug when there is nothing more they can do
like they will tell you give up on this issue or that one

In my case, I was fighting for full full custody, as I didn t trust Him or his 28 year old affair partner to treat my kids
well-..I was not going to get full custody, but it turned out that xh left the area anyway and gave up everything in the end

stick with your plan..
Do your best to be kind and fair--then let go

The M is now over and the D is business only


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow