Im sure you picked a good one, and yes I believe if he is withholding information and certain documents Your L will be best to advise you
From my experience, MY xh pulled a lot of tricks during D He tried not to pay the mediator and almost wound up in jail for it He did not want to pay the price for his freedom He did not care about his 2 kids or my well being
I was a stay at home mom until D an had no income
A good L will navigate this with you, and they will also pull the plug when there is nothing more they can do like they will tell you give up on this issue or that one
In my case, I was fighting for full full custody, as I didn t trust Him or his 28 year old affair partner to treat my kids well-..I was not going to get full custody, but it turned out that xh left the area anyway and gave up everything in the end
stick with your plan.. Do your best to be kind and fair--then let go
The M is now over and the D is business only
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow