Pack, think about what you just wrote. Because you really don't think anyone here will encourage you to write any email to your W, let alone what you just asked, do you?

What do you hope to gain by conveying that to her?

Me: 38
Stbxw: 35
No kids
Mini bd: February 6, 2019
ONS confirmed Sept 7, 2019
Told her to move out: September 8, 2019
W moved out: September 28, 2019
Divorce filed by me: September 23, 2019