Finding the man I want to be, alone. Pack_19 part3

[Pack_19]

hi all,

There is a question I have to ask. Last time I saw W and she made all the comments about my message telling her she was a lousy mom and wife she made a comment about how if I did not file she would because she had been telling me is her intention for 13 months and that she actually asked for a D once. (This was as you might remember when I pushed to lower the pension and she told me my actions were saying I was a terrible person and had not changed).

Now following advice from Husband help haven I have read is normal for a S wife to use D or the threat of D as a "tool" to control you. Would it help to send her an email reading that I will not stand an open marriage and that as long as we are S for me there is a clear difference with D. That I want to have this conversation in person but since she only wants to talk about the kids that is the only way I have to convey the message.

I want to hear from the board before sending another email that is not going to be taken seriously. thank you all.