My goodness it sure is dark at this time now. 6:20am and it’s completely black outside.
Interesting H fixing the toilet, installing a shower head, and cleaning the porch. It could be a check of your reaction, or a display of acts of service, or whatever. He did it because he felt like it. Why? Hard to say, and he might not even know.
Your acknowledgment and affirmation of his actions and efforts was good. Thanking him was perfect.
Is H still joining you for meals sometimes or more back to hiding in his room again? (Just wondering if he still can work the door. )
Continue to let go of the rope. It’s nice to see you removing your focus from his tiresome shenanigans.
Originally Posted by PLC
I am still scared for what the future holds, but I am excited too.
Excellent!
Wonderful to be excited for one’s future. Way better than dreading it.
Being a bit scared or worried is fine. I bet you are a lot less scared than a few months ago. A lot less paralyzed, I can see that in your posts - making plans regardless if H is there or not. Good job.
Have a great day PLC.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
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