I understand what you are saying, and you are right. Sometimes GAL is an effort.
So this weekend he surprised me by fixing a toilet that had been running, buying and installing a new shower head and cleaning our porch. I know better than to wonder why, but it did throw me for a loop. Today was my IC appt (by phone) and she echoed the rule of not getting distracted by his behavior. (She really is helpful) I realized, last week and the few weeks leading up to this, he has been ignoring me so much, you can read it in my previous threads. I began being short and ignoring him and leaving at weird times just to get out,
This behavior could be a check to see how I react. All I did was say thanks for the shower head. It’s interesting, to see what we discuss here and what we read to see it happen, even in just a small way.
I am continuing my stuff, because honestly, I’m getting tired of his shenanigans. I guess the rope is dropping a little more, because as much as I want my H, I have plans that I am making regardless of he is there or not,
I am still scared for what the future holds, but I am excited too.
