I really wanted to see her but I declined. I took the advice and reiterated if she’s still involved with OM there’s not a lot to talk about.
I keep reminding myself for things to get better, it has to be over with OM. Not that things need to get better in order for it to be over with OM.
Great job Indy! I know NC/boundaries is super tough work... especially when you have allowed a certain behavior for so long. Each time will get a little easier. The emotions subside a little quicker.
Keep it up.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
