I'm new to these boards and have been taking in a lot of information over the last week and found your posts today. Our situations are very similar right down to being ghosted on social media but with one exception; he hasn't mentioned separation or divorce at all. Why? I don't know. In fact anytime I've offered to leave he's begged me not to make any rush decisions so I don't yet understand what that means. If I look at your timeline I'd say our current R is in about the spot yours was in May so that gives me some hope although I'm trying to keep any expectations at bay.
I'm just learning about DB'ing and am working on GAL and detaching. Thank you for being so open about your journey, its an inspiration for a newbie trying to figure out how to navigate this mess. I'm so happy for you for the progress you and your H have made, I look forward to future updates from you.
