Thornton not that it makes a difference but she didnt move in with OM. Just in a full on relationship with him in every other way. Just wanted to clarify.
I'm not gonna lie she broke my walls a bit with the ILY's and IMY and some of the other stuff she said.
I'm gonna take a day or two to think about it but i can already see how this would set me up for failure.
Some of what she said would give me some expectations. Expectations that would probably not be met and then Im just setting myself back emotionally.
The more I think on this the more I'm probably gonna go with exactly what you guys said.
"If you're still with OM theres nothing for us to talk about"
Just don't want it to come across as an ultimatum or controlling.
IMO - you do nothing.
You are doing well...
couple of things here..
The grass isnt always greener.. she may be seeing signs of this..
BUT from how you have painted WW, she likes things her way.. Guess what - You not doing as she wants is probably driving her nuts. This isnt a case of ILY or IMY - This is a way of her taking back control of you. Not because she wants to reconcile, but because she needs to feel she still can..
Seriously - You are doing so well - Grab this gift of freedom and enjoy it - walk on, walk away and just ignore her.
I will reiterate what ive said ( and others )
1. To get back with her or show interest will set you back mentally ! - Why do it to YOU 2. To get back with her could result in children in the future ! - Why do it to YOU or the CHILDREN .
Previous username - Helpme123.. A name chosen at a desperate time..
Now Mr Brightside.. coming out of my cage, and doing just fine.
