LH, Thornton,

Thanks guys.

Thornton not that it makes a difference but she didnt move in with OM. Just in a full on relationship with him in every other way. Just wanted to clarify.

I'm not gonna lie she broke my walls a bit with the ILY's and IMY and some of the other stuff she said.

I'm gonna take a day or two to think about it but i can already see how this would set me up for failure.

Some of what she said would give me some expectations. Expectations that would probably not be met and then Im just setting myself back emotionally.

The more I think on this the more I'm probably gonna go with exactly what you guys said.

"If you're still with OM theres nothing for us to talk about"

Just don't want it to come across as an ultimatum or controlling.