I truly think I need to get through the immediate next stage of proper separation...H is lost and either dragging his feet or simply ignoring what he has to do next. Which brings me to my update:
Another session of verbal spewing accusing me of holding things up for the sale of the house. I told him to talk to his lawyer as documents are missing and walked away.
Contact is made - his L informing my lawyer that they will be bringing a motion to a judge to order the sale of the house!!! What the hey diddly dogs!!!! Ummm how is that possible?
Of course I temporarily lost my mind until speaking with my L to find out that yes they can do that but apparently without a SA or proper FD no judge would warrant that as it would mess me up for getting a mortgage etc...As it would for him too!!!!
I’m so confused ...why would his L even entertain sending that? Is it supposed to be an intimidation tactic???
Anyway it’s working to cause fear in me again because my L suggested we “call their bluff” While she once again asks for the documents that are missing from his FD...They gave us a deadline of last Friday for filing for the motion and my L won’t be sending anything until today. I don’t think she likes being “bullied”.
Last night before going to bed I check my email and there’s a message from H stating that HIS agent, that he’s been working with for a long time, says he will do all he can to get us the highest price and that we should list soon.
I know many people on here say listen when the Mlcr talks because they give hints as to what they want. He has consistently wanted to sell the house. Blindly ignoring the steps involved to get there. Why would I “give into this”?
I was thinking about responding to his message stating something about how “I tried to explain to you last time you verbally attacked me that your paperwork is not complete and talk to your lawyer.“
Does that sound ok? I want the “record of verbal abuse” and the record that I’m not the one holding any process up... Is there anything else I should/say? Is saying nothing better?
Dnj - you mentioned in a post before about letting the pro do their job and I feel like that’s where I’m at right now....this is her area of expertise and I’m paying her to look after my best interests.
