It almost like whatever you would say to her...she would not agree, and come back with some form of a fight

still in a teen mindset-

She seems somewhat regretful, but she still does not take any responsibility for the D or the outcome
and has to defend her life as a good and right one

I think internally they do realize they blew it- she gave up everything really for nothing
Probably never admit it


I would guess many will have to remain clouded by drugs, alcohol, relationships or whatever their addiction is
for some time or the remainder of their lives
very sad indeed

Glad you are doing great and this seems like a typical MLC story

The LBS builds a great new life...The Mlcer continues to gets worse.... until/unless they seek serious help


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow