Still - that being said - this process is an excellent opportunity to do self reflection, to make ourselves into a better version of who we are, to embrace change and even adventure in our lives. We ALL can become better and this crucible of change is a great place to do that.
Originally Posted by bttrfly
A grateful heart won't treat those they allegedly love(d) so callously.
Best to focus on the changes we want to manifest in OURselves and OUR lives rather than the unanswerable rathole and festering misery of MLC.
If, by some miracle, the MLCr gets their head out of their @$$ and does the work, perhaps coming back into the fold, ok. If not, you still have yourself, and a much improved version at that. Win Win. Capisce?
Thank you Kml and bttrfly!
Since some of the fear, panic and confusion has lifted I am finding that I am able to focus on me a lot more than I was able to after BD and over the ensuing half a year or so. I’ve had a few fun adventures already and look forward to many more. As bttrfly said, with or without H. Change has always been something I feared and I’m slowly learning that I can embrace it and be ok...especially with the mindset of “making things better”.
Bttrfly - “rathole and festering misery of MLC” - this made me laugh. Thanks for that. Sad it’s true...but well written.
“Grateful” - what an important and magical word. Wish more people infused this into their spirit, souls and lives. My gosh the positive change we would see.
