What I mean is she considers me and the kids in her every-day life MORE. So less wayward than her GET ME OUT mentality and ZERO regard of me or kids from a few months back. As Ovr put it, I take these things as positives signs for co-parenting. If she would have had the same mentality as in Feb-April I would have declined to co-parent and monitored her actions from a distance to see if had a case for full custody or not. I am glad we are not going down that road.
With regards to OM and marriage I think she simply doesnt consider herself married anymore. D process is started and we are close (I hope) to splitting our assets. She rolled her yes at me when I said "we are married you know" as early as January... Also, I think this is an easy way for her to just notify people of the news, without actually having to talk to anyone. I asked my brother who also follows her on Instagram and he hadnt seen anything either so she is hand-picking who gets to see it and it probably looks to other people as though I also can see it.
She's just a lame and weak individual. Freakishly hot but very weak and selfish.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021