UpdateMy move with S19 and S11 was completed this weekend. Everyone settling in so far. S11 starts new school tomorrow. As expected, he's both nervous and excited. W texted this afternoon (she's 20 miles away) asking if it was okay with me if she stopped here to see S11 off on his first day. I have not responded, and I'd love some of your wise advice/thoughts on this.Thanks!
What are your thoughts around it? Would it be hurtful for you? Would it be hurtful to S11 if she wasn't there? What are her patterns? Does she usually see him off on his first day?
Could you possible set something up where she can see him off but not enter the new place?
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
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