Well, I have emotional dips and dives. Sometimes I over blame her, and other times I over blame myself. Most of the time I have a level head, and can be fairly positive. I want to co-parent with her for our son 50/50. Not unreasonable.
All makes sense. Those are not unreasonable requests....
Originally Posted by ATLGuy13
So to do that she would have to stay in the town she’s lived in for 20 years.
Is that you saying that? Or a L? and the 20 years doesn't matter.
Originally Posted by ATLGuy13
She moved here for a job, and met me half way into that. We decided to have a kid here. So, her demand to go home just seems childish to me. 42 is a weird age to demand to go back home.
This is pure judgement and not helpful. It only fuels your entitlement. You can disagree with her wants/decisions w/o criticizing her. Not easy when you are have strong emotions but not impossible either.
M(f): 43 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.
