Hi Unchien,

Thanks for your post. Let's see if I can put my feelings here. When I saw her she confronted what I told her about an open M in the sense of insinuating I was lying and then she went on to speak about how she wanted and had always from the beginning wanted a D. Then she went on to say if you want a D we just do it, I actually asked you for it already.

For me an open M is a deal breaker as I said but I am such a weak person in front of her I dont know how to bring it up. Could I get some help from the board? I want this clarified, for me is not fair to be treated in this way, I would not do it to anyone and I cannot stand someone doing this to me. Again I have only heard a rumor but it is killing me inside.

Thanks a lot for your help, yes I will focus on me and the kids.


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Me 29 W:29
M: 5yrs T:10yrs
S:6 yrs S:1 yr
BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19
Sep: 10/27/19