I'm glad your son appears to have had a good time w/his dad on Father's Day. Children grow up so fast and you don't realize just how fast until they are no longer little babies, but teens. I hope that in time, your h will wake up and realize what he's missing and want to spend more time w/your son and also come to realize what he's lost along the way, i.e., a home, a wife and a family.
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Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.