Dreadfully Optimistic

[ovrrnbw]

I understand you are in pain and I can sympathize with that.

You are blaming her for all this when it's not all her fault. You act like she is wronging you when she seems to be trying to right her own ship. You need to right your ship.

Your talk of her family is more woe is me about things you can't control.

Your job woes appear to be one that will travel, but if you couldn't stay employed in a city of Atlanta's size then you know what the issue is.

You appear to be disheartened by the fact that you won't get alimony. People only get what they earn. Have you put in the work? You live in America, there should be no excuses. The opportunity is there.

Seneca said "everything is a matter of judgment."

There is no reattach right now for you. Let her go. Stop trying to control her and this sitch.