Gigi if you REALLY think the kids need to know u can just tell them. Especially if WAS isn't responding. That's exactly what happened to me, so I just told them. Went sort of like this. Mom and dad aren't in love as much any more. That's why mom isn't at home all the time anymore. I am not sure what will happen.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021