We have both been active parents. She has a job which allows her to work remote, so she can work anywhere. She wants to move from Atlanta to Jefferson, NC which is the middle of nowhere. There are zero employment opportunities for me there. Which is the problem;
I highly doubt this. I have plenty of family members who travel 40-60 miles each way for work everyday. Others who work Mon-Thurs up state and come down on the weekends. That doesn't mean you need to follow her or not fight for your kids to stay in the same state... but the argument needs to be based in you having employment - not you complaining about how hard life is.
Originally Posted by ATLGuy13
generally the only compromise in mediation is for the spouse to follow the moving spouse to the same area, and both set up shop their. She didn’t have an issue with my job hopping until recently, but there’s no way to prove that, and now it’s her leading reason for divorce.
Which is it ATL. I get that you are upset and scared but some posts you take full responsibility for your unsteady employment and other times you don't.
Originally Posted by ATLGuy13
Nevermind that she was just as unhappy whenever I was working. It’s gaslighting behavior from her that has become typical. Convince me of a false reality so she’s not at fault.
I'm not a fan of using the word "gaslighting".
Perhaps its true, Perhaps its your perception. Either way it doesn't matter. Folks here are giving you strong advice about getting a job and a lawyer. It's up to you to take it and start focusing on it.
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