We have both been active parents. She has a job which allows her to work remote, so she can work anywhere. She wants to move from Atlanta to Jefferson, NC which is the middle of nowhere. There are zero employment opportunities for me there. Which is the problem; generally the only compromise in mediation is for the spouse to follow the moving spouse to the same area, and both set up shop their. She didn’t have an issue with my job hopping until recently, but there’s no way to prove that, and now it’s her leading reason for divorce. Nevermind that she was just as unhappy whenever I was working. It’s gaslighting behavior from her that has become typical. Convince me of a false reality so she’s not at fault.
"I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will let it pass over me. When the fear has gone, there shall be nothing. Only I will remain."