Consult will a few lawyers. Legally she can't take your son from you. Usually it's within 25 miles I believe. If she makes more then you then she will pay child support and most likely alimony.
Be smart and try to get whatever you can from her. She will most likely try to manipulate you with false hopes of reconciliation to get you to waver. Don't buy it.
Just so you know as I have been saying this is all part of the process.
