It’s interesting, with D permanently home (until she gets a full time job, at least) if I run and errand or go anywhere, she tags along as there isn’t a lot to do. When H is home, he asks her where we are going. I find this ironic since he leaves and 9 times out of 10 he doesn’t say a word about where he’s goinyg and when he will be back. So he is ignoring me and mostly her too, but when he’s home and we leave, he wants to know. So weird.
I have (except for that last observation) really tried to not think about what and why he does stuff. This 999th weekend of pandemic will find me finally able to get hair cut and colored and some movies on Netflix, exercise and bbq. If he’s home, whatever. I don’t know if he notices, but I notice I’m taking care of me. That’s all that matters.
Kindly, you are so right, we are not in the same game. This is a competitive game of solitaire!
