My ex had no legitimate reason to be dissatisfied with our life. He had a great job, we had a lovely house with an ocean view, no debt besides a moderate mortgage, 3 great if different kids, he had a loving wife, good sex life even after 26 years together. Nothing was perfect but life isn't perfect. His complaints about me really were just excuses to justify Still - that being said - this process is an excellent opportunity to do self reflection, to make ourselves into a better version of who we are, to embrace change and even adventure in our lives. We ALL can become better and this crucible of change is a great place to do that.
yes. i was married to his immature East Coast twin, apparently.
A grateful heart won't treat those they allegedly love(d) so callously.
Best to focus on the changes we want to manifest in OURselves and OUR lives rather than the unanswerable rathole and festering misery of MLC.
If, by some miracle, the MLCr gets their head out of their @$$ and does the work, perhaps coming back into the fold, ok. If not, you still have yourself, and a much improved version at that. Win Win. Capisce?
Last edited by bttrfly; 09/03/2011:41 PM.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
