@ Sandi,

She has the children until Sunday, then I get them next week and then she gets them the week after and so on. We have been communicating as I said over email the last 2 days.

I never meant to give her the ultimatum to get her back, sadly for me I truly feel our M is somehow there and I refuse to live in an open M where she can go out and pursue whoever she wants while I get up every day thinking about the man I want to be and the R I would like us to have. It is not fair for me, I would never do this and if we are to go down this path I say we do it divorced. The thing is that she hates me so much she couldnt care less about any words I say.

I think a lot about your comments on how things had to get worse before I could see a change if ever, well I dont think things can get any worse than when your W threatens with police. I am a good father and I love my W, that is all, I do not deserve this treatment...

I dont know how I will proceed when the 15 days have passed and she has not said a word. As I am sure it is what will happen. Thank you all.


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Me 29 W:29
M: 5yrs T:10yrs
S:6 yrs S:1 yr
BD: "I want a D" 08/09/19
Sep: 10/27/19