ATL havnt read all of your posts but been following a bit lately.
You Should REALLY listen to LH. He is giving you GOLD in every post!

In regards to timelines, read other threads to understand!
Read JosephS for a sitch that has had a SHORT timeline due to the severity (I believe).
Read Curtis for what NOT to do!
Read RobX for... a strong way of DBing.

Veterans agree? Please add other stories.

Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021