Not to be snide, but I guess I was under the impression that DBing meant “not having a divorce.” lol
Also I was led to think that DBing has a reasonable chance for success. While your statement is qualitative, I believed it had better odds than, “she will likely divorce you.”
I’m not asking her for a temperature check, or anything like that.
On top of that, it seems, and I could be wrong, that you believe I’m not already following your advice in your last paragraph. Sure I’m not perfect, I have a few emotional moments, but I keep them away from her view. When I come here it’s to ask if her reaction is from DBing, which would be doing things like showing her I’m moving on too. You say that would be the quickest, but would you still say this is years later after a D?
"I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will let it pass over me. When the fear has gone, there shall be nothing. Only I will remain."
