There is still so much stuff of hers still her just in the way. I'm trying to reorganize everything make it my space but its a pain to say the least not knowing what she might show up and decide to take.
Perhaps this has already been mentioned, but have you thought about packing her personal items and putting them in the garage or somewhere to get them out of the way? Then you could make the place look like yours, instead of his & her. It can be a statement of sorts, that your life is going forward. Whether or not you welcome that status, you can fake it till you make it.
I think it is a positive sign that you are cleaning up the place.
((hugs))
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
