Finding calm during the storm

[peacetoday]

Hi

They get worse especially around D

AS D gets closer they get crazier.
It is a stressful time for all.

and I think they forget about their responsibilty with the papers and the documents their L is waiting for
because they don't want to deal with that part.

They just magically want all the assets and their freedom, at least mine did

Some of his anxiety and projected anger at you may be due to him knowing all he will lose in the D.
His fear of the future.

If you can read more about detachment: he is allowed to feel whatever he does
it is all your fault

You are allowed to say
sorry you feel that way and walk away
knowing you are doing everything you can to work this out or let him go in a loving responsible way

It is not you...practice and remind yourself
you did a really good job with a very difficult situation and his MLC is his from his childhood issues unresolved
You can not help him with that-