Re gifts- havent had gifts sent to my kids but when H went with ow and kids for a day out they come back with a keyring that had a picture of all 4 of them..... needless to say its in the bin! I mean i didn't react at all, but after a couple of weeks whilst tidying up my sons room the keyring disappeared along with some toys that they have bought that day.
I can also relate to mh issues, im starting to think that my H behaviour has little to do with waywardness but there are bigger issues at play. And i of course want to help him, but i stay clear and just keep an eye on the kids. I think this is the only way to go, because firstly he doesnt thibk he has issues and secondly he wouldn't take my advise anyway.
