I am glad you are speaking to your lawyer. Best see how you can get this resolved; you don’t need X pulling stunts like this.
His comments about does he needs to call if one minute late, he is pushing and rebelling. And yes, he does need to call if he is late. So be on time or a bit early. Sheesh, he is an emotional teenager, thrashing about. He’s not going to like the consequences, of his actions.
Document, document, document.
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Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.