WMLC... I think that’s a pretty good synopsis of what happened from her perspective. I don’t think it is a story...I think it is what happens in a lot of marriages. LH just did a great post about it. I’m not sure she has given herself permission. Her awareness of what she has lost just tells me how desperate she was/is to feel happy again. The faulty thinking is that she thinks your relationship was the source of her unhappiness. Because of this, she believes it isn’t fixable and, as long as she believes that, it isn’t. So you are doing the right thing... moving forward and focusing on building a life without her. Keep up the good work. (((HUGS)))