LH... I concur. What you wrote is EXACTLY what happened in my marriage. Exactly. Seems so fixable, doesn’t it?
Most are very fixable. The problem is the are so many variables that come in after B drop. Brian chemicals, hormones, resentment, A/Ps and all logic goes out the window and decisions are based on emotions. One of my favorite quotes is "when decisions are based on emotions there are sure to be consequences". Think about people who are willing to give up half their time with children, financial security, friends and family for some guy/girl they just formed a connection with recently. Crazy right?
I think part of the problem like many things in this county is that people are not educated enough. Women don't understand what hormones do to their feelings. People don't know that in general your 40s are generally the most unhappiest years of your life. Men don't understand woman or attraction.
