You are right of course, it was just unexpected, as he was saying just 2 weeks ago how good ive got it and he cant keep giving me money....so was just surprised by the changes. I just said thank you and didnt enter into the emotional conversation.
Im totally concentrated on me and the boys and at the moment getting them ready to go back to school next week and getting back to work after our holiday.
I absolutely realise this wasnt a step towards our M in any way.