I’m certainly not reluctant to work. However, the job market is not booming right now. I am certainly trying.
What are some slam dunk actions I can do? I am not looking for one thing to fix all my problems, but if there is some low hanging fruit I might have missed. I do 90% of the house work right now, and help with our S. Of course if I slip and miss something she’ll point it out to me.
She has said I don’t take feedback well. So I try and stay positive about anything she says and break the negative feedback cycle which has led to contempt.
"I will not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. I will face my fear. I will let it pass over me. When the fear has gone, there shall be nothing. Only I will remain."