Thanks for posting again Sandi! Will get back to some of your points. But you are right i shouldnt see her as non wayward already.

Anyway, wanted to do a quick post.
Exactly a years ago today we got married. Feels strange.

W asked me how I feel out of the blue and I wasn’t really prepared.
Said I feel good but was far from firm on my voice.
I said it’s a strange day, but doesn’t really mean anything. She agreed And said it meant something to her then...


I want to get D finished and have her move out ASAP.


Me: 34
Stbxw: 30
D:5 D:3
Mini bd: May/June 2019
Married: Aug 2019
BD: 6th Dec 2019
OM Confirmed: Feb 2020
March 2020: I filed for D
Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021