Yikes... I've been there with the false allegations. The important thing to remember is that it will all come out in the wash. I get the "guilty until proven innocent" thing, because that's just the way society is sometimes. But I assure you, everyone in your life that matters will know the truth in the end. She is trying to get a rise out of you. It would be great for her if you flew off the handle and furiously denied the accusations. I learned to just kind of chuckle, roll my eyes, and sarcastically say "OK" with a smile with each new accusation. Eventually people see who the crazy one really is...
Me: 38 W:31 Kids: S16(mine from previous R), D10, S9, S4 M: 10 years T:12 years BD:Jan 3, 2018 W moved out: Apr 13,2018 Filed for D: Jun 2018 D final: Sep 2019