Yup I was angry.

I wasn't so much angry that he change plans, didn't meet up, etc.

But I was 90% about to be at that same orchard yesterday. They have a new sunflower field and its in full bloom and I was taking my camera because I enjoy taking pics of sunflowers.

So the anger is just --- he drove 3hr for donuts when he could have gone in any other direction and thank goodness I wasn't there.

But, the anger was really from a phone call earlier where unprompted from me he starts telling me what I know are lies - why he was in town and it really wasn't the married couple D it was OW's D. I never asked. Its not my business so why is he fabricating the lies.

^^^ that is more where the anger came from. But, I understand I should have said nothing.

I has since not engaged.

I woke up to this text "Don't be b*tchy with me because I had a change of plans and went out for a ride"

^^^ which is again a lie. I got texts from him on Friday asking to meet Sunday AM and if I would come to his town because he was trying to figure out the logistics of his day ---- why, because he already had plans.. this was no change.

Either way I did not deserve the text this morning. I have continued to say nothing.

Last edited by job; 08/24/20 06:38 PM. Reason: edited language