You really need to stop getting wound up over this petty stuff. He took OW to a place he used to take you, so what? Not your circus, not your monkeys.
"SO I CALLED A SPADE A SPADE - "You couldn't find time to go over financials but went to X orchard and X pizza place"
No, this isn't calling him out. This is you being super duper extra petty. This is you meddling in things that aren't your concern. This is you snooping and pushing him farther away, and justifying to him that you are not someone he wants a relationship with. You do see this, right?
