Its been an exhausting week. Having to go to court with S19 dad was dumb and petty. I was willing to settle out of court with lawyers and I was giving more than I was getting to do so. He was ordered to pay a big chunk of change and if S19 and I are smart and careful with our funds he may make all 4 yr without loans.
The plan was meeting today for financials - he asked me to drive to his town. Oh, to meet at your house? NOPE. He doesn't want me at his house. Ok, then I guess you are driving here. Followed with texts yesterday about how he got called into work so now I need to pick a day next week or next weekend... blah blah blah. Followed by an hour long call where he just volunteers how he move R&L's D into the dorms ---- but I know its OW's D. Why elaborate lies??? I get off the phone and get on with my day.
BOOM - email receipts for the local orchard and woodfire pizza place we took our kids too every year at this time for cider slushies and warm apple donuts.
Seriously? You can't meet for financials because you are working 12's constantly but you could drive 1 1/2hr each way for donuts??? This is after he told me on the phone that he was in my town yesterday for R&L's D again but we both know its OW's D. You left because the commute every day broke you AND yet you keep coming back???
SO I CALLED A SPADE A SPADE - "You couldn't find time to go over financials but went to X orchard and X pizza place"
H: "sorry, I couldn't sleep so I took a ride"
You must have been so hungry and thirsty with that ride cause you ate 4 pizzas with 4 soft drinks followed by a dozen and a half donuts with 4 slushies. No I did NOT type that but its exactly what I thought. Though I would have been more freaked out like --- how did you know where I was and if I knew he was there then I knew he was with 3 other people and all he can say is that he couldn't sleep? No, this was planned.
I said nothing. My silence will speak my words for me.
The universe is looking out for me. H forwarded his mail but there was a mistake and his bill for the PA Turnpike showed up at my home. So much for agreeing the puppy stays with me when he is out of town. I called him out on that BS to - he said he looked at the calendar and I had listed that I was out of town that weekend. IDK? I was only gone one weekend in July so maybe? But when you lie so much hard to know when you are telling the truth.
I will email my atty in the next couple of days. I have an idea of what he thinks our settlement should be and I will just proceed without him. If she needs something she can subpoena I guess if he doesn't want to drop off or mail a signed form.
The man is so stupid he has no idea what he is doing.
