Wow!!! Your vacation sounds amazing FS. Your new man also sounds like a good one and nice that he is letting you dictate the pace. But more than this... WOW... good for you for changing the locks and not letting your H bully you into giving him keys. Proud of you. It will be interesting to see what his next move is. Regardless...you set a healthy boundary!!! Good for you. Hope you have a great time with your kids!! (((HUGS)))